Author: phillis

Bullying is a repetitive pattern of negative and aggressive behaviour that has a negative intent which is then directed to a person from another person, thus resulting in a power imbalance. It is a hurtful and wrong activity that can often lead to severe consequences. While there is always a power struggle that is visible among kids, bullying is done with the intent of causing harm to the other person. It falls into 2 classes – Direct Bullying – One where the harm is caused verbally or physically directly to the person being bullied. Indirect Bullying – It is an indirect form of harassment which includes spreading misinformation or teasing a person to an extent that it disturbs them mentally. Many parents often ignore this kind of activities by regarding them as part of a childhood phase of one kid. However, bullying is a grave threat and can have huge repercussions on the youth’s mindset and future. Effects of Bullying Bullying can have life-long consequences and...

Bullying can never be resolved without a stern action against the perpetrator and apprising the authorities of the activities in their premises. When left unattended, these issues can take an ugly turn and even cause serious injuries to your young one. Your child might not feel comfortable discussing such an issue with you. Talk to a close friend of theirs or the school authorities in case you suspect any bullying incident going on with your child. A well-talked plan is a correct way forward to solve the crisis at hand. A school administrator might help you get a different perspective on the issue. They can talk to the parties involved and resolve the matter with calmness as well. What to Avoid in Such Cases? A parent should never encourage one to fight back or let these incidences go unattended in any case. This will only lead to the problem escalating. Listen to your child well, and form a definitive case before approaching higher authorities. Work...

In today’s time, children have become more adept to technology than ever! They have started using all forms of technology at a very young age. While learning new technologies can be justified as an integral part of their learning system, it comes with a dark side as well. By creating their online identity, children often forget their real self and seek to discover new ways to get attention digitally. When misused, these same sites can become the reason for grave identity crisis and issues such as fear, humiliation, and isolation from the real world. Cyberbullying could also happen and exists in many forms – Cyber-Stalking – sending our hurtful content over social media Denigration – Posting derogatory content on one’s profile in an effort to defame them in real life Flaming - using offensive language to verbally harass someone online Impersonation – creating a fake profile of a person in an effort to defame them. Outing – sharing a shameful personal fact about someone without their...

Parents are always the first line of defence for a child. No matter what the situation is, a parent will always try to justify his child’s actions and defend even the negative behaviours. This can lead to a very sad situation if your child is bullying his fellow classmates. Bullying not only affects the victim of the attack, but it also sets a negative behaviour in the mind of the perpetrator. Studies have shown that children who bully others at a young age often get involved in criminal activities in the future. This situation is grave because neither the parents nor children are ready to accept and understand this situation at ease. As a parent, here is what you need to do – Teach them values such as empathy and respect. Understand their situation and teach them better ways to express themselves. Children more than often learn from their parents. So, maintain a peaceful environment at home. Spend more time with them...